Females: 8 Things You Shouldn't Feel Anxious Aboout

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With the rise of social media apps like Instagram, Facebook and twitter insecurity is now the order of the day. The traditional media (tv and radio) aren’t also exempted in fueling it. It’s not like these things purposely fuel insecurities amongts people but if everyday you keep using skinny light skinned models on everything how do you expect the dark skinned ‘orobo’ babes to feel? Female’s generally are the victims of insecurities and here are 9 things female teenagers shouldn’t be insecure about.

1. BEING TOO TALL
People might say that you’re too tall to find a guy. And their point is…? Girls of every height envy girls of other heights, because there is no one perfect height. Yours just happens to be a great excuse to date a basketball player—or be one!

2. BEING TOO SKINNY
The media says to look one way, but then people shame girls for looking just like that! Whether you are naturally skinny or have a workout and diet routine that make you look that way, don’t be afraid to love your body, whether “bony” or “curvy” (even though we all have bones AND curves!).

3. BEING TOO FAT
This is the most common. The same is true on the opposite end of the spectrum. Don’t listen to the haters who say you are too big! Everybody is absolutely beautiful, and even more beautiful when the person is confident and happy.

4. BEING SINGLE
You are a young desirable woman! So why doesn’t the cute kid in your agric class realize that? Don’t worry about being single in high school or beyond. Relationships are sometimes viewed as a status symbol in high school, like your life isn’t complete until you have a significant other. But your friends and family will still love you even if the cute bio kid doesn’t, and you should love yourself, too!

5. ABSTINENCE
Sex isn’t the only way to prove you and your significant other are serious, or that you’re a real woman, etc.
If you choose to abstain from sex, that’s a great option. Be proud of your choice and don’t let anyone’s mockery get the best of you!

6. BEING SHY
Sometimes you just want to hide from the rest of the world, and sometimes that “sometimes” lasts all of high school. But if that’s just a part of your personality, that’s okay and you shouldn’t worry about people judging you for it! Just try improving on yourself.

7. BEING OVERLY BOLD
On the other hand, you might be one of those boisterous teens elderly people are always complaining about. And that’s okay, too! It’s a great thing to be unapologetically you! Don’t be afraid to have fun and make a fool of yourself every once in a while.

8. NOT HAVING TOO MANY FRIENDS
it’s not the end of the world if you don’t have many friends. I don’t mean to undermine those feelings, because feeling lonely and abandoned is absolutely valid.
But if you don’t want many friends or simply haven’t found your people yet, try not to stress about it. Solitude is sometimes a good thing.

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