First, it helps to foster a sense of equality as one spouse is not seen as the ‘lesser’ of the couple. Also, it helps the couple bond keep growing more, as certain tasks and responsibilities are not just limited to one of them.
How, then, can these gender rules be bent, if not totally changed?
Create a system for dividing chores
As Nigerians, one of the subsisting relationship issues is that of women cooking for their husbands. It is still generally accepted that the woman should prepare all the meals for the home, or in a relationship. And as a matter of fact, changing that is going to take a lot of time, if it’s ever going to happen.
However, to enjoy your spouse more, dear men, relieve her of that stress. Prepare her a meal, no matter how terrible you are at cooking; she will appreciate your effort, at least. Other chores such as washing clothes, doing dishes, disposing of the trash should also not be limited to one person.
Sex can be instigated by anyone of you
Hello, Nigerian women, enough of feeling horny, but waiting for your partner to come on to you. It is also not cool to drop hints with your behaviour and all. By now, you should know that men are not mind-readers. If you want to have sex with your partner, feel free to start the process.
Take turns paying bills
Yes, as a lady, you have heard this before; but sadly you are still not practising it. It’s time to stop letting the man pay all the time. Pay his bills sometimes, get some home appliances, do stuff for him that involves splashing the cash. It helps for the man to know that you are also financially committed in your relationship.
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