RELATIONSHIP TIPS: TIPS TO HELP YOU FLEE FROM CHEATING ON YOUR PARTNER

Cheating will always be a bad thing. It’s as simple and plain as that.
It might be the most common thing to see or hear of these days, but the fact that almost everyone cheats does not make it right.

Yes, it might be true that, the decision to stay faithful to your partner or to your marriage vows will take a lot of energy, strong will and restraint, but hey c’mon, it’s your choice to be in that relationship isn’t it?

When you are faced with temptations, (which you definitely will), below are some of the tips that can help you flee cheating on your partner:

Make a determination not to be among the Cheaters
Whatever will happen will first happen in your mind, so you need to block out the thought of ever cheating on your spouse or partner by choosing to be the most faithful partner ever created.
In order to do this, you need to cancel out thoughts that your partner might be cheating on you.
If you keep this kind of thought, you will find it hard to be committed to staying faithful to them.
You should choose to hold your end of the bargain, regardless of what your spouse does or does not do.


Keep your emotional matters for your partner only
When your partner offends you, or does something wrong, and refuses to see reason with you, sharing it and asking for someone else’s opinion might seem like the easiest thing to do. [Especially someone of the opposite sex] You say “I just needed someone to talk to and he or she was there.”
You should know that sharing sensitive information about each other is how many emotional bonds begin. Soon a shoulder to cry on might soon become a ‘rod’ to ride on.
Do not get too close. Do not build that emotional connection. You’ll not be able to fight that temptation to cheat.

Limit tempting opportunity
If you never get in a situation to cheat on your partner, you’ll most likely not.
Hence, it’ll do you a world of good to limit or totally cut off ties with everyone who might be too tempting to ignore. Stay away from old flames and people with whom you’ve had sexual relationships in the past.

Get your spouse involved
Becoming married or getting into a relationship does not mean that you have to leave every other person you were once close to. However, to avoid the temptation of falling for someone else, or them falling for you, you need to always find a way to remind them [and yourself] that you are now committed to someone else who deserves your loyalty. Always put on your wedding ring (if you are married), and find a way to bring up your spouse’s name in conversations with them.

Seek external assistance
If you feel tempted to spark up a relationship with someone else, tell someone.
 Of course the best people that people often find it easy to talk to in these instances are their spiritual heads, and it’s just fine. Talk to your pastor, adopted parents etc. if that’s who you can fearlessly confide in.
In the instance where you do not have any, or you feel they cannot be completely trusted, then you might want to meet with professional advisers/ counsellors/ therapists.
Get out, get help!

To wrap it all up, staying faithful and true to any special relationship requires so much hard work, and you should be ready to do what is needed.

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